想要與需要 Wants and Needs
剛跟瑜珈恩師帕薩德老師學習時，他提到：「傳統上，每個星期四是『上師』日，表達對其教導的感恩。」 今天剛好星期四，所以我想分享多年前與恩師相遇時，他曾說過的一句話。 那句話，當下震撼了我，敲開了一個縫，讓光走進來..... 影片結尾，分享瑜珈古籍《薄伽梵歌》中的兩段話。這兩段話，也次次在人生路上提醒著我。
Every Thursday is Guru’s day and I would like to share my dear Guru’s words when we met at first time today. Many years ago I “accidentally” signed up his workshop in Hong Kong. To be honest, I can’t recall at all what this workshop was about; however, I clearly remember the moment he blow my mind by saying “ Life will not give you everything you want but it will provide you with what you need.”
No one until then had told me that life works in this way. I had been taught to fight for success, to chase my dream, to accumulate more and more since childhood. Then I started to contemplate on the difference between “want” and “need”. It is normal and healthy to have a clear vision and goal in life. However, the hook is the obsession with the desirable outcome, the attachment to either failure or success. This creates a cycle of endless chasing and suffering.
After embarking on the journey of Yoga with Guru Prasad, I gradually loosen my grip and trust life more. Firstly, it’s the clarity on what to do in one’s own life. It is said in Bhagavad Gita (2.48), “Perform your duty equipoised, O Arjuna, abandoning all attachment to success or failure. Such equanimity is called yoga.”
With clarity, little by little, my heart is willing to surrender and let go of my egocentric wants, just like lotus said once more from the Gita (5.10), “One who performs his duty without attachment, surrendering the results unto the Supreme Lord, is unaffected by sinful action, as the lotus leaf is untouched by water.”
My deepest gratitude to Guru Prasad for showing me the light from within.
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